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Looking At Maleficent Totally Different

By Sherry Riter 4 Comments

On Monday, June 2nd, I was reminded of several important lessons in life while watching the new movie, “Maleficent” starring Angelina Jolie. I went to the theater with my daughter, Alyssa, and my mother. The theater was almost empty, so not only were we able to choose any seat in the whole place, but we didn’t have to worry about interrupting anyone if we decided to speak to each other.

So in an empty theater, we started our viewing pleasure with a billion previews of movies to come. Maybe there were not literally a “billion” previews, but there sure were a bunch of them!

Foot at theater Movie Disney Maleficent

Do you know what “maleficent” means?

Definition of Maleficent: causing or capable of producing evil or mischief; harmful or baleful

I grew up watching Disney’s cartoon animated version of “Sleeping Beauty” which steers the viewer to see Maleficent as an evil woman without just cause to be evil. The new movie with Angelina Jolie has me looking at Maleficent totally different. Actually, watching the movie with my sweet daughter and mother reminded me of five very important life lessons.

5 Important Life Lessons

My “Maleficent” movie adventure reminded me that:

  1. If you don’t take the time to learn someone’s backstory, your view of them, their actions and their life will be incorrect.

    Definition of backstory: a story that tells what led up to the main story or plot; a person’s past

  2. Forcing your judgement on another person robs you of a closer relationship with them because you assume a position of arrogance.

    Definition of arrogance: an insulting way of thinking or behaving that comes from believing that you are better, smarter, or more important than other people

  3. Age is just a number that represents the amount of time you have physically spent on Earth and does not represent your maturity, wisdom, intelligence or the depth of your emotional commitment to an issue or relationship.
  4. “There is a fountain of youth:
    it is your mind, your talents,
    the creativity you bring to your life
    and the lives of people you love.
    When you learn to tap this source,
    you will truly have defeated age.”
    ~ Sophia Loren ~

  5. Relationships require nurturing which can’t be accomplished if you are selfish.

    Definition of selfish: having or showing concern only for yourself and not for the needs or feelings of other people

  6. Love is the secret of life.

    Definition of love: a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person

Alyssa Mom Redhead Sherry Riter Disney Maleficent Angelina Jolie

Did we all enjoy the movie?

Oh yes!

Even more than the movie, I thoroughly enjoyed being with Alyssa and Mom. It’s the first time in a very long time that the three of us have gone to a movie together. I’m so grateful that I not only had the opportunity to enjoy the movie with both of them, but thankful that I have a mother and daughter that love me back. Thank you both for…well, thank you for everything.

Filed Under: Aging, Alyssa, Lessons of Life, Love, Mom, Relationship, Self-Development  

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  1. Joan says

    June 6, 2014 at 2:07 pm

    You asked, “Did we all enjoy the movie?”

    Well, I don’t know about the movie yet because I haven’t seen it, but I thoroughly enjoyed your post! Especially the two shots that you took in the theater. I’d recognize your leg resting on the chair in front of you anywhere! (The giveaway was your shoe. :)) And I especially enjoyed the picture of you, Alyssa and your mom up on the screen next to Angelina Jolie as Maleficent. Very creative indeed. Well, like I’ve always said, “Your imagination has no limits! 🙂

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    • Sherry Riter says

      June 12, 2014 at 4:39 am

      You recognized my shoe? Did you really remember it from the ONE picture I posted a LONG TIME AGO?! If so, WOW, you have quite a memory!!! 😀

      Reply
  2. Sue Bock says

    June 12, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    What a lovely story. I love the ending when the best part was spending time with your mom & daughter. I’m looking forward to find my own little nuggets in Maleficent.

    Sue Bock
    http://couragetoadventure.com/blog

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    • Sherry Riter says

      June 13, 2014 at 12:18 am

      🙂 Seeing the movie with both of them was truly icing on the cake. I had such a great time! I’m sure you’ll just love the movie! It is so good!

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